Pendidikan Sex atau Pendidikan Reproduktif dan Sosial telah dicadangkan untuk dijadikan matapelajaran teras di sekolah Malaysia menurut kata Timbalan Perdana Menteri, Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yasin. Malangnya, golongan Mufti, Ulama, JAKIM, Majlis Fatwa saya rasa tidak termasuk dalam kumpulan yang merangka pendidikan sex di sekolah.
Pendidikan sex memang penting kerana pelajar sekarang terdedah dengan pelbagai bahan lucah. TAPI ianya mestilah Pendidikan Sex Menurut Garis Panduan Islam.
Menurut artikel di bawah dari Amerika Syarikat menyatakan, pendidikan sex di sana telah GAGAL menurunkan kadar kehamilan di kalangan para pelajar. Malah ianya menambah keinginan pelajar untuk melakukan sex.
Menurut penulis dari Amerika Syarikat ini perkara yang paling utama dan paling awal dalam Pendidikan Sex ialah menanam kefahaman yang mendalam terhadap ALLAH yang Maha Berkuasa yang sentiasa Melihat apa yang makhluk lakukan. Tanpa ALLAH dalam hati manusia , mereka bebas melakukan apa sahaja.
JAKIM dan MENTERI JAKIM , tolonglah, perkara ini amat penting untuk PERPADUAN KELUARGA MELAYU/ISLAM. Janganlah sibuk dengan ESQ saja.
Antara topik yang dicadangkan oleh penulis dari Amerika Syarikat ini mengenai matapelajaran Pendidikan Sex Menurut Islam ialah :
a. Pertumbuhan dan perkembangan seksual
b. Jadual baligh
c. Perubahan fizikal ketika baligh
d. Keperluan hidup berkeluarga
e. Fisiologi sistem reproduktif
f. Proses kelahiran
g. Penyakit kelamin
h. Mental dan emosi ketika baligh
i. Sosial , moral dan etika agama
j. Menghadapi tekanan
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SEX EDUCATION, TEENAGE PREGNANCY, SEX IN ISLAM AND MARRIAGE
SHAHID ATHAR
Sex education in American schools has not helped decrease the teenager incidence of VD or teenage pregnancy. This is because it has not changed their sex habits. According to Marion Wright Elderman, President of the Children' Defense Fund, in a recent report, out of every twenty teens, ten are sexually active but only four use conceptions, two get pregnant and one gives birth. In 1982, a John Hopkins study found one out of every five 15 year olds, and one in three 16 year olds are sexually active. The incidence increased to 43% in 17 year olds. The Louis Harris poll in 1986 found that 57% of the nations 17 year olds, 46% of 16 year olds, 29% 15 year old were sexually active. Now it is estimated that about 80% of girls entering college had sexual intercourse at least once.
CURRICULUM FOR ISLAMIC SEX EDUCATION
Islamic sex ed should be taught at home starting at an early age. Before giving education about anatomy and physiology, the belief in the Creator should be well established. As Dostoevsky put it, "Without God, everything is possible," meaning that the lack of belief or awareness of God gives an OK for wrongdoing.
The curriculum should be tailored according to age of the child and classes be held separately. Only pertinent answers to a question should be given. By this I mean that if a five year old asks how he or she got into mommie's stomach, there is no need to describe the whole act of intercourse. Similarly it is not necessary to tell a fourteen year old how to put on condoms. This might be taught in premarital class just before his or her marriage. A curriculum for sex ed should Include:
a. Sexual growth and development
* Time table for puberty
* Physical changes during puberty
* Need for family life
b. Physiology of reproductive system
* For girls- the organ, menstruation, premenstrual syndrome
* For boys- the organ, the sex drive
c. Conception, development of fetus and birth
d. Sexually transmitted disease (VD/AIDS) (emphasize the Islamic aspect)
e. Mental, emotional and social aspects of puberty
f Social, moral and religious ethics
g. How to avoid peer pressure
http://en.zehirliok.com/sex-education/sex-education-teenage-pregnancy-sex-in-islam-and-marriage.html
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